Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Memories of April 11, 1961

by Nora Quesada-Catiis

Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Somerset, New Jersey

It's the day after April 11, 2011, the 50th anniversary of our UP High School graduation.  Trell's blog this past weekend brought back a lot of nostalgia and memories, including Nina's memories of April 11's "candle-light ceremonies" when we read our "Oath of Induction" by means of pen-flashlights, remember?

Browsing over my collection of albums through the years (yes, there's PLENTY of them!), I leaf through my UP High Albums and now take some time to share some scanned copies with you.

The opening line of the U.P. Highlights article was: "Honesto Nuqui heads 102 graduates of Class'61 at their commencement exercises in the Multi-Purpose Hall at 5:30 this afternoon."
    So, there were 102 of us!..and with attendance at the golden jubilee (in Subic) almost reaching 80 and perhaps 90 at Volts' party, the organizers really succeeded in getting as many '61 alumni to attend the  milestone events of February 2011!



Like NinaJ commented, it would be nice to re-enact that "Circle" again, sometime, somewhere.  Whenever that will happen, let's continue to live up to the "oath" we made 50 years and a day ago, as we recited it in "our "61 circle:"-- the circle symbolizing oneness and unity among us; and the light, as our willingness to serve our people to the best of your ability wherever you are.

Trell's title of "The ONE High School Reunion " echoed these sentiments...let's all continue to stay united and in touch and look forward to more happy reunions!

Here now is a copy of that "Induction Sheet" I wanted to scan the 2-mimeographed pages of "Induction" sheet but with pages now yellowed and quite faint and difficult to read, I am now re-typing it below to share with you.
  (Interesting to note the use of the term U.P.P. High School: perhaps to mean University of the Philippines Preparatory High School)

INDUCTION OF U.P.P. HIGH SCHOOL
GRADUATES TO THE U.P.P. HIGH SCHOOL

PART 1:    THE PRESENTATION
Music: "U.P. Beloved"

The Principal (Wilfredo Maceda) : Graduates of the U.P.P. High School (here all graduates stand), having completed your secondary education, you are now ready to pursue studies in higher institutions of learning. At the same time, you are entitled to join the U.P.P. High School Alumni Association, an organization of men and women to have graduated from this high school.  Do you wish to join this association?

The Graduates: I do. (Here the graduates answer in unison).

The Principal: Mr. President, I present to you the Class of 1961.  They wish to become members of the U.P.P. High School Alumni Association.

The President (Dr. Vicente G. Sinco) : Members of the Class 1961, I am glad that you wish to become members of the U.P.P. High School Alumni Association. Let your representatives (representatives are the valedictorian, the salutatorian, the honor students and the officers of the fourth year class organizations) come to the platform in order that though them, I can welcome you to the U.P.P. High School Alumni Association.  (The representatives go to the platform).  The President shakes hands with them, after which they return to their places.  All graduates remain standing until the representatives have taken their places).

The President: Addresses the Graduates

PART II: THE CIRCLE
(Music: The Graduates march to form a circle with the President and the Principal.  Then, the graduates light their candles).

Portia Casambre, Elizabeth Arcellana, Nora Quesada, Renato Cunanan, Reynaldo Cruz

The President: Let this circle symbolize the oneness and unity of its members; and the light, your willingness to serve our people to the best of your ability wherever you are.
(Music:The graduates march back to their seats.)

The President: You will now read the pledge.

The Graduates: To the best of my ability, I will endeavor to achieve the objectives of the association and to promote the welfare of each member.  I will conduct myself, privately and publicly that I become a credit to the U.P.P. High School Alumni Association and the ideals of the University of the Philippines will always be the guiding principles of my life. So help me God.

The President: 1961 Graduates of the U.P.P. High School, I pronounce you members of the U.P.P. High School Alumni Association.

Music: "Philippines, My Philippines"


Blogmaster's note: During the post-Subic party on February 15, 2011 at the Gazmin residence, thanks to Egbert, we closed with a friendship circle.

 

Saturday, April 9, 2011

7 April 2011 Reunion


It was an impromptu reunion in Manila but if only because of Volts' drawing power, a total of 25 people came! The following made it: Egbert, Ete, Dinky, Jerry, Efren, JimmyB, TedM, Sheila, Carmen, Og & Jean, Percy & Perla, Joy & Vads, Pearl & Vic, Nina & Ronnie, EddieC & Reggie, Beth & Bong, Volts & Rhodie of course. Atoy was supposed to come too but got exhausted daw from a provincial sortie. I hope I did not forget anybody who was there! Mabs (out-of-town trip?), Simon (in Cebu), and Delsie (in Quezon and also out-of-town trip) sent regrets. No replies from Egay (could have been abroad or too involved in his pastoral work?), Cora (abroad too?), and BobbyM (mysterious as ever).


The reunion turned out to be an early celebration of the 50th anniversary of the graduation of our class on April 11, 1961.  Somebody (Vads?) noted it was also some sort of babang-luksa for Pic. Mabini also reminded me it was the birthday of now-Canadian immigrant Chito Garcia. (Chito: you can Fedex us some smoked Canadian salmon for our next gathering here.)


We were going to hold the reunion on April 11 itself at some restaurant but we also wanted to ensure the attendance of Volts and so we made him chose the date and venue. With his busy schedule Volts said he could only be free for Thursday April 7 dinner  and added it should be at his official quarters at Camp Aguinaldo (yes, same place we went to on Feb 15). Kung gusto ninyong siguradong nandoon ako, dito na lang tayo sa Aguinaldo. To relieve the pressure on Rhodie, we made it a pizza-and-pot luck party but of course it was an imposition anyway. 


Notable contributions were: Ted (pizza), Jerry(pizza),Joy/Vads (pizza), Bong /Beth (KFC and Indian mangoes), Nina/ Ronnie (KFC, fresh salad and fruits),  Sheila (empanaditas, just like the ones we used to get from the Student Union in the 1960s), Carmen (ice cream), Eddie/Reggie( two yummy oreo cheesecakes), Pearl/Vic (authentic guinatan with purple ube tinge), and of course from Rhodie/Volts (nilagang mani, pasta, soft drinks, beer, music, and a hundred other things). Since I ate a lot, I hope I didn't forget anybody's contribution. Just like a family gathering too, Rhodie sent us off with most of the leftovers complete with containers and take-home bags!


It was wonderful putting our stories together, some of which we cannot broadcast to everybody! Let me just say that some themes generated many funny anecdotes: sino-sino ang mga nalasing? what story can you share us about your reunion roommate? how did we all have such a nice time? how can we do it again? And to Volts, we aksed what is the most annoying thing about your current job: "People who approach me with the question Hindi mo na ako kilala ano?"


For the class, the spirit and camaraderie was still there and so, just like family, we laughed at both the old and new kwentos, kantiyawan, tuksuhan, and jokes (even the barrage of corny ones by Teddy M) as if we were hearing them all for the first time. We (classmates and/or spouses) laughed not out of duty or courtesy but just out of the pure joy in being together, healthy, and in good spirits. 

We missed you all who were not able to make it -- including you, Pic. Till we all meet again!

Bong/Beth

Saturday, March 5, 2011

GOLDEN REUNION INDIVIDUAL BLOGS


Dinky Einsiedel

Singing at the hotel lobby was one of the best, if not the best reunion moment, especially since it was spontaneous. If you'll recall, we were in the "secretariat" room doing a debrief when Nina L felt the group was getting impatient waiting for the bus. It was she who suggested I go out to the lobby and "entertain" the group. I didn't plan anything! I just went out with my guitar and lyrics of some songs which we didn't sing but had kept in my guitar case. I approached the group closest to the front desk, which included Lou, Portia, Au, Paul, and Sheila, and asked them if they knew the song "Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow". We started singing, just a few of us at first, then others joined us. After singing all of the 3 songs that I had the lyrics of, we stopped and I put my guitar back in its case.

But the bus had not arrived yet. After several minutes, I thought I'd just accompany anyone who wanted to sing while waiting for the bus. Since no one came forward, I asked people to join me in singing "Leaving on a Jetplane" which I felt many people were familiar with. That seemed to have gotten a lot of people's attention and a lot joined in. After, I just followed it with "Let Me Call You Sweetheart" which again I was sure everyone knew. That was when Egbert got Portia to dance the waltz as everyone sang! It was great!

I was exhausted after that and just slept all the way to Everybody's Cafe!



Carmen Torre-Dimayuga

Here  is my wish to our classmates 5 years from now:

Five years from now (70+ years old na tayo!!),  I wish all my UPHI '61 classmates
will still be as happy and kalog as they were during our 50th reunion.

 Magaganda at magaling pa rin sumayaw ang mga girls, pogi at magugulo pa rin ang mga guys.   Enteng, Manny and Dinky will still be entertaining us with their piano and guitar renditions.   And Aura with her beautiful voice will still be singing for us.

 I wish all the classmates involved (both from Manila and the US, etc, alam niyo at nang lahat kung sino-sino kayo!!) will still be as masigasig 5 years from now so we will celebrate another unforgettable and wonderful reunion.  Sana PRESIDENTE  na si Volts para sangkatutak pa lalo ang mga photographers and security ng class '61.  As Rolly Eugenio was telling me, this is the.first time in his life that he was “secured".  From the time we left UP last Friday up to the time we came back last Sunday we had security. Wow! 

Five years from now, I would like to see more classmates joining our reunions.  Especially those "silent" classmates na hinanahanap natin.

Stay healthy and happy dear classmates so we will all have the energy to celebrate our 55th (Beyond the Gold)!!  Emerald or alexandrite daw ang stone for 55th wedding anniversary.  I guess yan din for 55th class reunion.  So isip na kayo ng ating next slogan!!

Cheers!!  Cheers!!  Cheers!!  Hinay-hinay lang sa beer mga boys!!



Ofie Penaflorida-Aid

I'm back home to Lakewood but the memory of our golden reunion still lingers on. Kudos to the ones who organized it because it was very, very well-prepared and executed. On a scale of 1-10 I give it a rating of 10+. The reunion committee left no stones unturned in all areas. The place was very well-chosen, the programs were very entertaining, the activities were very well-scheduled, the souvenirs were all very well-chosen, and there was never a dull moment with all our classmates and spouses. On the last day, at Voltaire's dinner, I got teary-eyed because I was thinking of when/if we'll see each other again. I'm very glad I was able to make it this time.



Art and Myrna Jorge

What a wonderful 50-year journey. ..it’s been so nice to meet “old” classmates.. so fortunate to be afforded a nice weather and super setting for a beautiful get together… hope to see everyone in the next reunion. 



Nora Quesada-Catiis

Got back to New Jersey yesterday after over a month of wonderful trips in the Philippines and Canada--highlighted, of course, by a most memorable UP High '61 golden reunion. It was surely a Reunion of a Lifetime! 

Wonderful memories--and yes, we won't forget the little touches of golden mementos: the "gold-carat"sash, the gold-inlaid pill box in a gold bag (sooo handy and useful), the nicely done name tags and the wide-brimmed native hats to keep us from being sunburned;

Thanks to Nina Les for the luggage tags (a real work of art!); to Jack J for the nice pink "I Love Guam" bag; to Mabs for the "MB Life with an appropriate slogan: "Making better lives" handy fan with matching pen; the souvenir "Gold Na Galing Galing Pa" ball pens distributed and used specifically for the "Name That Tune" game and gifts from the UP Hi North Am. planning committee (with extras to be mailed/handed over to others who missed the reunion). 

Thanks again to Volts and Rhodie for EVERYTHING you did to make the reunion the BIG success that it was. I echo the comment that YES, we all felt "very secure" during the whole Subic trip.

To all who attended: Thanks for your wonderful company--and camaraderie!

Special thanks to the Joaquins and our Casa Joaquin mates: the Joaquins (of course), the Salazars; the Jorges; Ofie, the Cajiuats: we had such great time pre and post Subic, didn't we? The rides to and from UP; to and from Camp Aguinaldo--and around--were made easier because of the superb CasaJ service and accommodations. Indeed, Casa Joaquin was our home away from home for those 6 days pre-and post-Subic events!  

Let us all keep in touch...and see you, hopefully, in the very near future: Vancouver in 2013!!  

By the way, the North America "time capsule in a wine bottle" with all of the North America friends' notes and wishes are "safe"with me. Would you believe that it was questioned at JFK, NY airport--when they randomly X-rayed my luggage? At first they thought I had a filled wine bottle inside (duh!!) so I explained that it was an empty wine bottle with some notes from a reunion...and they thought it was amusing! Surely a "JFK customs experience" to remember!

Wishing all the BEST of EVERYTHING...and God bless.


The ONE  High School Reunion
April 9, 2011 by Trell
 
It is Saturday morning in Amherst, Ma which is said to be quite a university town with several famed authors in residence. I walked to the church at St Bridgett and  grateful for some down time.  This trip has been a longed for brief visit to family in Conneticut and Massachusetts. And, a chance to sit still and write this promised blog about our 50th High School Reunion in February. 
 
It has been 50 years since graduation from UP High School - the school that created a strong mold into each one of us. The ingredients of academic excellence, constant quest for knowledge, introspection, self exploration and expansion, discovery of talents, community awareness, empathy, generosity, perseverance, tenacity and a strong value system.
 
The memories of how I got into UP High surfaced as I participated in a casual group conversation with some of our classmates during the reunion.  One shared that his family moved to Quezon City from a distant town so he could go to school at UP High School. I remember how my mother dragged me to take the entrance examination and few years later commented/complained about how I have become too independent and a  free thinker .  Then, my thoughts shifted to that period of time in High School when a dear friend Norie  migrated to California to be with her mother and continued her secondary education in the US.  There was not a doubt at that time that she would excel in a Western educational system and she did.
 
My thoughts moved back to  February 2011 when I made it to our meeting  ground near the  Alumni Hall in UP Diliman.  One passes by The Oblation   (a symbol of strongly rooted academic and social concepts) as one drives  to the campus.  My mind was not focused on those symbolism. I was processing an odd  mixture of feelings. How  can I explain my absence in all the previous reunions ? How will I recognize my classmates? I  did not get  a chance to study and  read through all the email communications about this Golden HS Reunion that were misrouted when I changed e mail address.  I have attended a few events with UP High School classmates in the US - the ambiance of which was casual, fun and  relaxing and and they linger in my memory.
 
And ...there we were - a group of guys and gals with maroon shirts and khaki pants casually talking. I felt like I have just seen them a few months ago.  As I blended or faded in and out of the group, there was no mistake of the warmth, sincerity, gaiety, spontaneity, non-judgmental and unconditional acceptance and love for each other. The reunion committee both in US and  Philippines and even classmates who could not attend the reunion provided such an impressive labor of love to make the reunion a success.
 
I reminded myself throughout the reunion that I am with  a  group of men and women who are clearly accomplished in several areas and aspects of their lives. Meeting  or watching each of our classmates produced a steady pattern.  My mind kept going back to the physical appearances- face, physique, movement, speech, The images of each was clear and vivid. It was hard for me to focus on who I was facing at that moment. 
 
Beyond the identity of who each one was 50 years ago,  a tapestry emerged behind the screen. I listened to the series of milestones, the family, career, honors , accomplishments, gains, some failures and losses.  For most at this  period of our lives,  the inevitable had occurred like  losing our parents, loved ones, family members and friends. At 50 years post high school graduation and at this graceful period of our lives, we are facing the season of harvest. 
 
Again, for those who labored long and hard to put this magnificent event together , our gratitude for a living history of experiences, perceptions, wisdom to share not only with each other but also to  those especially the younger generation who are willing to listen.
 
The reunion was well planned, and well engineered,  geared to make each one have one of the best memorable moments in our lives. It was beyond excellence.... beyond galing galing !!
  
 
 
















Friday, February 11, 2011

GOLDEN REUNION

 SUBIC BAY DAY 1, FEBRUARY 11, 2011


ASSEMBLY AT BAHAY NG ALUMNI U.P. DILIMAN
by Edna Cayanga-Merino

Meeting time was 7 to 7:30 am behind the UP Theater but most classmates and significant others were there by the time we arrived at 7:20.   Many hellos and introductions were made.  Several of the classmates I was meeting for the first time, like Araw, Horace, Eddie and Bons, so even if some of them most probably had no clue who I was, I introduced myself to them. As we waited for more classmates to arrive, warm chitchat was shared by all.  When I found Bong without Beth, he informed me that she was on her way.  I think nahuli si Beth sa picture-taking in front of the Bahay ng Alumni and then sa may Carillon. 


Efren Quesada and Jimmy Chongco joined us at assembly but did not go to Subic.





Medyo mainit na and some were already using their hats furiously to get some fresh air. Sabi ni Pearl, ngayon lang uminit.  The whole of last week daw, ang ganda ng panahon.  

While we waited for the scheduled departure time of 9 am, we took shelter in the air-conditioned Victory Liner.  Salamat sa Diyos!



 Marcelo and I sat across the bus from Delsie and Tony.  Before I knew it, Delsie was sharing her  detailed plans for Tony to carry out when she dies.  Tony commented that sometimes he has desire to bury her alive when she does this.  

Estelle and Octavio Mamon

Cherry and Willie Pacquing

At exactly 9 am, Dinky announced we were rolling.  Nakahabol si Nepo  at 9:05! 





REMEMBRANCE HOUR
by Nora Quesada-Catiis


The Remembrance Hour held on the 3rd floor of Vista Marina from 5:00-6:15 pm was a unique celebration of lives.


After a beautiful rendition of Ave Maria by Aura, Egbert spoke about life as a journey. It was followed by Beth's solemn reading of Dover Beach by Matthew Arnold.

Aura Gray-Cajiuat
Egbert Abiad


Beth Arcellana-Nuqui




The most poignant moment was the powerpoint of photos of departed teachers and classmates with the background music of Saan ka man Naroon.


The sharing of memories were made by Edna, Titong, Nina Joaquin, Ofie, Jack, Bong, Delsie, Art Jorge -- appropriately capped by Portia's reading of Shakespeare's sonnet 30 which ends with these last 2 lines:

                   But if the while I think on thee, dear friend,
                   All losses are restored and sorrows end.



Portia Casambre-Henle
                    




Delsie Abrigo-Horak
Edna Cayanga-Merino

Araw Bernabe & Titong Enriquez


Art Jorge
Nina Lansang-Joaquin

Bong Nuqui

Jack Jacala


The hour was ended by a benediction sung by Aura, Paul, Lou, and Enteng:

       
       The Lord bless you and keep you
       The Lord lift his countenance upon you
       And give you peace.
       The Lord makes his face to shine upon you
       And be gracious unto you.


Paul Cajiuat, Lou Quejas-Salazar, Aura Gray-Cajiuat, Enteng Velasco



Certainly, the Remembrance Hour set a tone for the reunion: that life is a journey -- it's not the destination that counts but the quality of the journey. In other words, life is how you make it. A reunion such as this wonderful Class 1957-61 Golden Reunion is surely a moment to savor and treasure forever! Let's make every glorious minute count!

After Remembrance Hour




WELCOME DINNER PARTY
by Portia Casambre-Henle

At the welcome dinner party Friday, each classmate was asked for very brief introductory remarks. Atoy was among the first to speak into the microphone. He said, “This reunion is for Pic,” which acknowledged, I felt, not only the general feeling of missing Pic at this reunion but also our eternal gratitude for all he had done for our class through the years. Pic would have loved the evening. It featured oldies but goodies: vintage songs and dances; fun contests and awards; and wonderful, youthful camaraderie. (We may be in our sixties now but at the reunion, we felt young at heart.)

We also sensed love was in the air, especially in song. The Manila group–Araw, Atoy, Beth, Delsie, Dinky(with his trusty guitar), Egay, Egbert, Jerry, Joy, Nina, Pearl, and Sheila (plus Carmen and Simon who held up the codigo of lyrics)–opened their program with “Everybody Loves a Lover” and “You’re Just in Love.” The audience was then treated to a song-and-dance number “Sinisinta Kita/Katakataka” where the chorus’ distaff side, having put on “baros” in a twinkling of an eye, took turns dancing as gracefully as Bayanihan soloists. The final number, “Those were the days, my friend,” elicited enthusiastic participation from all reunionistas (Bong’s term) in the dining hall.

Dinky Einsidel, Atoy Cunanan, Delsie Abrigo-Horak, Joy Vitug-Rivadelo, Pearl Kapunan-Ortega, Sheila Tempongko-Obedeza, Beth Arcellan-Nuqui, partially hidden are Egay Pajaro and Jerry Carandang

Codigo lyrics holders Carmen Torre-Dimayuga and Simon Raborar

The evening featured solo crooners as well, very ably accompanied by Araw’s inaanak (Nonong). We heard Beth’s soothing voice, Volts’s ala Frank Sinatra, Kaloi’s, Atoy’s, Bons’s—among others. I was sitting by Lelalee by the time Araw sang his first solo so I learned that the sensational (and foreign sounding) song actually belonged to a musical genre known as ‘novelty song’ and this one was ‘Butiki’ by Yoyong Villame. It certainly brought the house down!

The dancing queen of the evening was Juliet Brillo. She actually wore dancing shoes (as did Jess N. reportedly). Those who frequented the dance floor (in addition to the DIs and Juliet), included the Ninas, Pearl, Kaloi, Delsie, AlmaF, Beth, Ronnie, JoyVR, and Mabini (the last two doing a remarkably bigay-na-bigay Twist). JoyS and Lou, Paul and Aura, Nina and Dony, Norie and Roly, ArtnMyr,Marie and Mario, Chit and Al, Edna and Marcelo, Mabini and Mits were among the married couples spotted on the dance floor as well.
Juliet Brillo-Coquinco and DI
Jess Nepomuceno and DI




The ‘introductory’ remarks from classmates yielded some news and tidbits about marriages, retirements, insights, etc. Jerry C is retiring next Friday; Araw’s own imminent retirement prompted Araw to extend a general invitation to Spain, provided he be given a 12-hour notice/warning. Titong said they’re moving back for good.

Even introductions of spouses were interesting. Edna called Marcelo her boyfriend of 37 years; Marie called Mario her best friend for 36 years now. Pearl and Joy identified their respective hubbies (Vic and Vads) as UP Prep grads. The Ninas and Chit noted their marital connection to other UPHS classes. Emma and Cherry noted their husbands (Mario and Willie) happened to be out taking a walk together just then. Somehow we also found out that Norie and Roly have been married for almost 41 years; Aura and Paul, for 42; Carmen, for 45, thus garnering the Longest-Married-to-the-Same-Person award.

Incidentally, other fun contests/awards involving some sportsmanshipwere: Thinnest Hair (Bons beating out Dinky); Smallest Waist (Portia, over AlmaF and Pearl; Enteng and Egay in a tie, over Jack). A prize for the Most Interesting/Funniest Senior Moment was never awarded; in fact, the contest never got off the ground because, as Enteng said, “Who could remember?”

Nina de los Reyes-Lesaca and thinnest hair winner Bons Abon

Smallest waist contenders Egay Pajaro, Enteng Velasco, Jack Jacala, Alma Fabella-Karlsen, Portia Casambre-Henle, Pearl Kapunan-Ortega with judge Nina de los Reyes-Lesaca


Winners of the ‘Kilala mo ba Sila’ contest earlier in the day were also announced: Juliet, Cherry, Chit, Portia, Atoy, and Liza Sol. None of them would have their crush in high school revealed to the public, but Bong announced that his perusal of the contest sheets showed Titong and Egay were the ‘crush ng bayan.’ (Rumor has it that Angelo would have given them great competition had he been around to pen his signature.) Yes, still and forever, the most titillating question when high school alumni gather is who had a crush on whom.

I am reminded at this point of some late “arrivals”—Bobby Maniego, Volts and Rhodie, and Alma Samonte-Conty—which generated a lot of excitement. In particular, there was a clamor for picture-taking with our very distinguished, esteemed, generous classmate who has never let his VIP rank and status in the country create a distance between him and his classmates of long, long ago.

Araw Bernabe, Titong Enriquez, Lelalee Pascual-Rabago, Milburga de Veyra, Volts Gazmin, Ted Matta

Everyone was able to see and talk with Alma Samonte-Conty via Skype. She was in her sunroom surrrounded by lovely orchids. Through her labor of love, we have been viewing videos of Pic, Clarion, and departed classmates and teachers.

Enteng showing Alma on Skype to Araw, Titong, Volts, Ted and their canonized friend San Miguel

This was the first reunion in the Philippines for Aura, Ofie, Trell, Jack, Jess A., Bons, Octavio Mamon, and maybe Horace too. I hazard to say we shall see more of them and others in the future. As Ted Matta said, “I just realized tonight that life is a ball; I’m so glad I graduated from UP High.” Or as Kaloi told us, “I owe my development to all you guys here.” Or as Jess N. declared, “The best is yet to come.”

All throughout the evening, classmates expressed their appreciation to the reunion committees. We all feel, “A million thanks for a wonderful, galing galing na golden reunion.” It’s such a happy, marvelous, uplifting, heartwarming golden jubilee, surely we have to go for the next milestone anniversary.

Mabuhay!





SUBIC BAY DAY 2, FEBRUARY 12, 2011



The free time in the morning and afternoon were spent touring the attractions in Subic Bay, swimming, relaxing and kuwentuhan.



DINNER AND PROGRAM AT THE SUBIC BAY YACHT CLUB

by Beth Arcellana-Nuqui


AN OUTPOURING OF LOVE IN SONG

Saturday night,12 February 2011


The setting was the grand lobby of the Subic Bay Yacht Club, with its wall of tinted glass sweeping up from floor to three-storey high ceiling, and panoramic view of the bay with moored yachts on a moonlit night.

From the first strains of “There are places I remember all my life / though some have changed…” (the soundtrack for a short Power point presentation of reunions in North America), through the poems read by Ofie Penaflorida-Aid (“ I shall not pass this way again”) and Portia Casambre-Henle (“How do I love thee?” by Elizabeth Barrett Browning), the kundimans (“Sa Kabukiran” and “Minamahal kita”) sung by Aura Vina Gray-Cajiuat, to the classic and jazz improvisations( Schiller’s Ode to Joy/ Beethoven’s 9th Symphony and Gershwin’s “Someone to watch over me”), rendered on the grand piano by the evening’s impresario Enteng Velasco, we were overwhelmed by the outpouring of love, from across the oceans and through five decades of friendship. Bons (Manuel Abon) was a revelation, truly inspiring and inspired in his rendition of “Can this be love?” and “A woman in love” while accompanying himself on the grand piano. His performance prompted the proud cry of “1-E yata ‘yan!” from Bong.

Ofie Penaflorida-Aid


Bons Abon

A challenging round of “Name that tune” devised by Art and Myrna Jorge had 8 teams (tables) on tenterhooks. Each team had to guess not only the titles but also the performing artists of a total of 25 hits, five from each of the years 1957 to 1961. Two teams tied for first place with 48 correct answers each (out of 50): the team led by singer Araw (which also included fellow singers Bons and Voltaire) and the team led by Horace Gillego. Bong won a consolation prize after confessing he had only 8 correct answers.

Co-winners of Name That Tune contest headed by team leaders Horace Gillego and Araw Bernabe
 


Another entertaining treat was the Five-Pair Dance ( dubbed by emcee Dinky as the “Senior-Senior Prom”): the waltz by Art and Myrna Jorge, the calypso by co-emcee Nina Lansang and Dony Joaquin, the tango by Juliet Brillo-Coquinco and Kaloi Rabuy (yet another revelation), the twist by Lou Quejas- and Joy Salazar, and finally the cha-cha by Norie Quesada- and Roly Catiis. Graceful pairs all, they were loudly applauded.

Art and Myrna Jorge

Nina Lansang- and Dony Joaquin

Juliet Brillo-Coquinco and Kaloi Rabuy

Lou Quejas- and Joy Salazar

Nora Quesada- and Roly Catiis

The photo booth was a hit and attracted long queues. The most popular groupings were pairs, trios and quartets (various permutations and combinations) but since each picture print required 3 rapid poses (change of places, hats, wigs and facial expressions), each trio had to do a total of 9 poses so that each of them could have his/her own picture print. This did not stop classmates from posing for many prints!

NinaLes, Kaloi and Sheila whoopin' it up
Special Awards for the night: For having traveled the farthest, logging 19 hours in flight, Araw Bernabe from Madrid and Alma Fabella- Karlsen from Oslo, who did a graceful boogie despite the difference in height. In high school, as Araw pointed out, they were both equally tall. For having birthdays closest to that night, Jack (Romulo) Jacala and Delsie Abrigo-Horak, both born the 8th of February.. By insistent public demand they had to dance – and gamely did so by doing a flamboyant waltz. For having the most grandchildren: Carmen Torre-Dimayuga (8) and Egay Pajaro (9). In the confusion, the class forgot to choose the best costume of the night but from what I remember, likely semi-finalists: Lou Salazar, Liza Sol Tapado, Emma Dolor, Norie Catiis, and Ofelia Aid in their classic bobby sox outfits with poodle appliques complete with leash, on balloon skirts, and Marie Tanwangco-Maglalang in a flower child outfit with flowers in her hair and the peace symbol necklace.
MarieTanwangco-Maglalang















Emma de Vera-Dolor and Liza Sol Estela-Tapado
Poodle-skirted trio: Lou, Ofie, Nora
…. The first lunch at Vista Marina, with first-year sections sharing tables in joyful recollections

… “Kilala mo ba sila” the 25-square grid game which each one had to fill up with the autographs of classmates fitting categories such as: “One of your crushes in high school”, “A PMT officer”, “Never Married”, “A classmate you have not seen since HS graduation”, etc. This was a noisy ice-breaker – especially since there was really no ice to begin with.

… the makabagbag-damdamin Remembrance Hour put together by Enteng and Egbert, showing for the first time the elegant combination of Diana’s golden scarves on black tops.

…. Friday dinner with the Skype-enabled participation of Alma Samonte-Conty (having mid-morning coffee at her Virginia home), with Enteng walking around with his laptop. (Alma produced a total of 8 videos, all labors of love: the first shown at the Remembrance Hour and seven shown over Saturday lunch). It was Enteng who made the video he showed on Saturday night.

… the Sunday Just-After-Sunrise Service between the pool and Subic Bay, amid the palm trees, with Deacon Kaloi soliciting petitions, both silent and shared, burned with incense, and thanksgiving for 50 years of love and friendship.

… (in private) the quiet devotion of Octavio Mamon to visually-impaired wife Estelle, the sweet love of Loliza Quejas and Joy Salazar (based on an enduring friendship, Lou says), the loyalty of two U.P. Prepians Vads (to Joy Vitug-Rivadelo) and Vic (to Pearl Kapunan-Ortega), the wisdom of Ofie, the brilliance of polyglot Edna Cayanga-Merino, the generosity and thoughtfulness of Volts (providing security escorts, photography and video coverage, pianist, dinner hosting, etc).

The more formal part of the evening in the yacht club was over by 11:30pm but a group of about 18 regrouped and continued the night into the wee small hours of the morning , over beer and coffee and liquor or liqueur at the Vista Marina hotel bar Cascades. With the expert accompaniment of Nonong , Voltaire’s favorite pianist imported all the way from Manila, the following had their own sweet turn at the mike: Voltaire, Araw, Titong, Beth, NinaJ and Dony, Lou and Joy, Marie and Lou (with some participation by Dony), NinaLes, Simon and Atoy. The session lasted until 3:00am and broke up only because Voltaire had to leave for Manila at 5:30am and some wanted to be able to rest before the 7:00am after-sunrise of Kaloi.

The good news was that everybody had a nice time, Volts was able to leave on time and many were able to get up early to join Kaloi’s beautiful after sunrise service.




SUBIC BAY DAY 3, FEBRUARY 13, 2011

SUNRISE PRAYER SERVICE
by Nina Lansang-Joaquin

A Truly Grateful Class at  
An After Sunrise  Service on a Lovely Beach in Subic 
Day 3 Feb 13, 2011
The Vista Marina Hotel in Subic was such a  perfect venue for our reunion.  The place had only 3 levels , and we found it so convenient  that every morning , we could just peek from the second floor balcony and see if the food was already laid out for breakfast in the dining room below or if classmates were already gathering in the lobby below for the day's activities.  We were all within reach of each other,  with very restful accommodations for the night, in a safe haven where we could  always retire to our rooms even for just a few minutes for whatever reason and not feel disjointed or cut off from the rest of the class.  And very best of all, from the moment you stepped into the welcoming lobby, you could  always  catch a glimpse of  the white beach and the shimmering sea beckoning just a few steps beyond  the hotel's swimming pool.  And there were coconut and palm trees, too, swaying with the breeze. Aha, you told yourself, it would be so relaxing to slip away early in the morning or late  at night after the day's  activities and step on the white sand on bare  feet  and feel the breeze on your face and maybe just fall asleep right there. 
Unfortunately,  we were having so much  fun  among ourselves and with each other as class 61, during those first two days , we were not  able to get to the beach at all.  On the second night, when everyone seemed  quite tired after the final dinner , Dony and I ventured to step out into the beach, but were  waylaid into an  irresistible  gathering of small talk and karaoke singing inside the bar beside the pool , where we stayed until the wee hours of the morning, and where after some drinks, each of us ventured  at least a song for the night, cajoled by  others and  inspired by the musical genius of Nonong on the keyboard.  Nonong is so gifted , he could play over  one's off-key and sour notes, and make you sound  tolerable. 
So on the third and last  day of our reunion, as I scrambled out of bed and walked towards the spot chosen by Deacon Kaloi, Enteng and Egbert for our sunrise service,  I felt so happy that we had the opportunity to gather and enjoy the beautiful beach after all.  Again, just like everything else for the past two days, holding the sunrise service there was just perfect!! Even the opening song Morning Has Broken was perfect for the occasion. There in front of God-made sand and sea, we realized how thankful we were for being able to attend such a fabulous reunion, for everything  that had just transpired, for the  great attendance from all over, without mishaps of any kind, for the overwhelming joy and love abounding, for our simply being there.
Deacon Kaloi presiding over prayer service
Deacon Kaloi along with  Enteng and Egbert, who were expecting no more than 5 or 6 to show up,  could not believe it when classmates came, many with their spouses, that early in the morning .  Deacon Kaloi delivered a short piece on thankfulness  and how God loves it when  we His children  ask openly and speak out our petitions, out  of humility, showing that  we are needful of Him at all times. We  had a touching ceremony of making known our wishes and desires and needs, one by one, either quietly or openly and writing them down on paper and burning the paper in incense.  Towards the ends, we could all feel a real sense of gratitude swelling from all of us as we sang the hymn Amazing Grace,  capping the two  days of frenzied celebration in Subic of our 50th anniversary as UP High Class 61.  
Al Magpily, Lelalee Rabago, Tony Horak
UP High Class 61 truly has so many things to be grateful for . First and foremost, that we are  all truly blessed to be members of UP High Class 61 and that we all know it.


WRAP-UP by Enteng Velasco

While waiting for the bus to take us to lunch in Pampanga, Dinky led an impromptu singing at the hotel lobby. Although we were taking the bus, the group sang with gusto Leaving on a Jet Plane. To the singing of Let Me Call You Sweetheart, Egbert got Portia to dance the waltz.

Cora Almazan, Dinky Einsiedel, Paul Cajiuat, Nora Catiis, Trell Acosta


LUNCH AT EVERYBODY’S CAFÉ
On the bus ride home, we stopped at Everybody’s Café  in San Fernando, Pampanga for lunch. The sumptuous lunch consisted of kare-kare, lechon kawali,bulalo soup, fried crispy hito, and sweetened saba and kamote. After lunch, there was a queue to buy pasalubong of uraro and turrones de casoy. 


Nory Tapado, Al and Chit Magpily, Juliet Coquinco, Emily Robles

Reggie and Ed Cailao, Joy and Lou Salazar, Jess Nepomuceno, Mario and Marie Maglalang, Milburga De Veyra, Trell Acosta,  Alma Karlsen 

Egbert Abiad, Bong Nuqui, Annie and Rolly Eugenio


CHURCH BURIED BY LAHAR


 
The  last stop before U.P.  was San Guillermo Parish Church in Bacolor, Pampanga. In 1995, lahar flow from the slopes of Mt. Pinatubo buried the church at half its
12-meter height. The present entrance is on the same level as the high window.




ARRIVAL AT U.P. BAHAY NG ALUMNI
We were back at the place where it all started. We arrived at 5:30 pm, exactly on
schedule! Everyone was exhausted and sleep-deprived but still radiant in the glow of friendships renewed and revitalized. We will have pleasant memories that will last us a lifetime. Alas, I am already having reunion hangover. May God hold us in His hands until we meet again, my dear classmates.









VOLTAIRE’S TREAT: A POST-VALENTINE GATHERING
by Bong Nuqui

The euphoria from the 3-days/ 2-nights reunion at Subic was hard to contain. Even after all the seeming delays on Sunday (Feb 13),  the Victory Liner bus made it back to the U.P. Bahay Alumni exactly at 5:30pm, just as printed in the schedule. As the participants gathered their luggage (now including  Tayabas hats, colorful Jack-donated Guam bags, and personalized luggage tags with the famous Pearl-designed tagilid UP logo) from the bus, classmates were clearly torn between hugging their greeters and hugging their fellow reunionistas. The unsaid question was “We are going to see each other again soon, right?”
Fortunately the answer was yes.  Voltaire and Rhodie were to host a post-Valentine treat on Tuesday evening. The 1-day break turned out to be fortuitous too:  it provided time for the reunionistas to rest (yes, admit it, we all needed that) or enjoy the Valentine’s Day milieu of heavy traffic and full restaurants in Manila. It also enabled participants to let all those emotions sink in, evaporate, or brew as the case may be.
Volts and Rhodie pulled out all the stops and laid out a feast at the official quarters of the DND Secretary in Camp Aguinaldo. The setting was superb and expansive: 8  big round tables under two huge colorful parachutes wide a big lighted acacia tree to one side of the huge lawn. As if pre-arranged, it was a cool Manila evening with an almost-full moon. The food was sumptuous (including 2 lechon de leche, fresh lumpia, beef caldereta, kinilaw na isda, native pinipig suman, etc.). There was live music too: Nonong (again) at the keyboard, this time accompanied by violin- and leaf-(yes, dahon) playing Lovi Celerio, the son of the late National Artist Levi Celerio. Our very own Dinky was there with his trusted guitar and Peter-Paul-and-Mary beard to accompany the encore of “Katakataka” and “Those were the Days”.

Because he had to accompany PNoy to Jolo earlier on Friday, Volts (and Rhodie) did not make it to Subic until 10pm Friday night (almost nine hours after the reunion group arrived). The Manila group in its musical presentation had to make do without him (one of the main singers of the group). Then too, because he had to attend the Sunday morning military funeral of General Angelo Reyes, Volts had to leave Subic at 5:30am that day while everybody else was still recovering from the Saturday bash at the Yacht Club.  In spite of all these commitments, the virtual reunion kickoff  on Sunday Feb 6 (where Nina Joaquin and Kaloi Rabuy attended as vanguards of overseas participants) and the closing dinner on Tuesday Feb 15 were both hosted by Volts/Rhodie. It was not originally planned that way but that is how it turned out with a mixture of good scheduling, luck, and of course generosity by the Gazmins.
In honor of Volts’s achievements and gratitude for so many things the couple had provided the class (including the full video and photographic coverage of the reunion from the Friday morning assembly until the Feb 15 closing dinner itself, the wonderful pianist Nonong, and the ever-present but unobtrusive security), the class serenaded the Gazmins and presented them with a bouquet of flowers and basket of fruits. In a semi-circle the class sung “What a wonderful world!” and “Paano kita mapapasalamatan”.  It was a modest gesture of thanks but Rhodie couldn’t contain her tears. In the depth of her emotional involvement she represented all the spouses who have been so active, physically or in spirit, in our class events, just like full-fledged classmates. No reunion would be a success without the active and supportive participation of the spouses – including those who (like Jim Henle and some others) could not make it but encouraged their spouses to come anyway.

Rhodie and Volts Gazmin

Jim Henle, Smith College math professor,  could not attend because of classes but urged Portia to come, even just by herself.  As his unique participation in the reunion, Jim sent a card-cum-logic-puzzle personally distributed by Portia. As you might remember, the card had 3 statements:
1.       There is exactly one true statement on this card.
2.       1961+50=2011
3.       Gold na, galing galing pa…rin!

The real point of the puzzle is that the 3rd statement is true – even if  all of us agree on it without need for proof. But the mathematical proof of the 3rd statement goes as follows (as emailed by Jim himself):
  • First note that the second statement is true: 1961+50=2011.
  • Because of this, the 1st statement cannot be true. If it were true, then there would be two true statements, the first and the second.  But then the first statement would be untrue since it says there is exactly one true statement.
  • Now since the first statement is false and since there is at least one true statement (the second), it must be the case that there is another true statement.  The only statement left is the third.  Thus the third statement must be true! Gold na, galing galing… pa rin!

The puzzle card was presented on Saturday noon and I was supposed to announce the proof on Saturday night but just too many things happened that night. But thank you, Jim, for the puzzle. Most of all, thank you for encouraging Portia to come. We would have wanted her to attend Voltaire’s Treat too on Feb 15 but her itinerary had been fixed before the Feb 15 treat was finalized.
 
 































Jerry Carandang, Titong Enriquez, Volts Gazmin, Jess Aquino, Egay Pajaro, Araw Bernabe

Jimmy Borres, Bons Abon, Ofie Aid, Aura and Paul Cajiuat, Dinky Einsiedel

Ronnie and Nina Lesaca, Perla and Pete Sagge, Mabs and Mita Juan, Diana Advincula
Voltaire’s post-Valentine dinner provided a chance for some classmates who could not be in Subic to join at least one 50th  reunion event: Percival and Perla Dalugdug (who were supposed to be in Subic but missed it because Percy got sick), plus Diana Franco-Advincula and the long-missed Roberto Mataverde, Jimmy Borres, Pete Sagge (with spouse Perla) and Octavio Gonzales. Amazingly, all of them connected instantly with the reunionistas, especially since all the pictures and videos of the Subic reunion were being played continuously on a big screen during the dinner. At times it felt surreal, as if being simultaneously in two time zones and places: Feb 11-13 at Subic (on the screen) and Feb 15 at Camp Aguinaldo (live!). 

Juliet Coquinco, Dinky Einsiedel, Roberto Mataverde

3 tenors? Hindi, tatlong kalbo: Percy Dalugdug, Pete Sagge, Bons Abon
Ete Manalang, Octavio Gonzales


Voltaire gave out a CD to every classmate. Each disk contained all the still pictures taken by the DND photographers starting from Friday morning  as the class assembled in Diliman until Sunday afternoon as the class gathered for one more group picture outside the lahar-buried San Guillermo Church of Bacolor. For distribution later in the week is a DVD which will feature the video coverage of Feb 11-15 (in raw form a total of about 12 hours, to be edited) plus all the still photos taken at the Tuesday dinner itself. All in all, these are priceless mementos of all that occurred during the reunion. The photographs are helpful even for those present physically at the events because even while there was a grand reunion, there were many otherwise-undocumented mini-reunions between classmates. Late into the night Beth and I would exchange notes about all the mini-reunions we witnessed or participated in during the day. For those who did not make it to any of the events, the CD and DVD will be the next best thing.
It was very difficult to say good-bye on Tuesday night. Egbert led the one-on-one hugs around an approximately 60-person circle and Dinky ended up singing Auld Lang Syne almost by himself because the huggers were madaldal – and therefore could not sing! Soon it was time to go but only because physical fatigue had set in on 65-year old bodies, many had to leave with their sundos, and for some, Wednesday was either still a working day or another day of touring or reunion with other friends and relatives. The U.P. High Class 1961 50th reunion has just ended but in fact it merely shifts from the physical to the virtual or spiritual mode. Very aptly, the banner for the evening did not say “Good-bye”, it said “Till we meet again!” – wherever and whenever that will be.















NOTE (Feb 22 2011): The comments below were solicited during the Feb 15 dinner at Camp Aguinaldo. Additional comments and responses are very welcome.  Please email to Enteng.
Wishes and predictions by classmates for 5 years from now (February 2016?) were also collected and “sealed” in wine bottles (a la time capsules) to be kept by Enteng  for those in North America and by Egbert for those in the Philippines. They will be opened five years from now.
THE FUNNIEST MOMENTS/ CLASSMATES:
  • The jokes, reminiscing our “awkward” high school days.
  • I loved every moment.
  • While posing at the photo booth at the Subic Yacht Club, I was trying for a wacky pose and almost fell back. This was caught in the picture.
  • The “Kilala mo ba sila?” game.
  • The “Name that tune and singer” game.
  • Lots of laughter during the 3 days. Classmates do not take themselves seriously in spite of their lifetime achievements. Kaloi predominates in terms of funny remarks, gestures and movements.
  • Trying to match names and faces. Many senior moments encountered.
  • Jack’s brief comments.
  • Kaloi and Atoy always made me laugh.
  • The award for the one with the least hair.
  • During our Saturday morning tour, Atoy kept a running humorous commentary  inside the taxi, all the way from the start to the end of the tour!
  • Every moment!
  • Kakalugan ni Kaloi.

HINDI MAKAKALIMUTAN
  • Lahat!
  • The whole event – from start to finish! The fellowship, the warmth of the feeling of caring among all of our classmates.
  • The surprised faces when people realized that the person/s in front of them was/were someone they used to know 50 years ago.
  • The whole time I was with classmates during the reunion, especially the Sunrise Service.
  • Sincerity of wonderful friends. Wonderful performance of everyone.
  • The entire magnificent celebration of Gold na, Galing Galing… pa rin.
  • The wacky posing for the Photo booth.
  • The solemnity of the Remembrance Hour – the venue, the music, the program and the black-and-gold outfits.
  • Camera malfunctions:  leaving the lens cover on, flash not working, low batt, etc. Ako ang may kasalanan!
  • The friendship and the spontaneity.
  • The presentations of the Manila and Overseas groups.
  • Ang samahan nating magkaklase na kahit paminsanminsan lang magkita ay parang kailan lang!
  • The Just-after-Sunrise-Service on Sunday.
  • Hindi ko makakalimutan ang masayang pagkikita sa likod ng UP Theater, lalo na ang matagal nang hindi nakita mula ng graduation.
  • The sea of maroon on Friday morning as classmates first assembled for group pictures. Almost everyone was on time.
  •  The “after-party” at the Vista Marina Lounge Bar, between midnight and 3:00am, after the Saturday dinner at the Subic Yacht Club.
  • Dancing the waltz with Portia at the lobby of the hotel.

PINAKA-NAKAKAIYAK
  • Remembrance Hour, especially the video footage on Pic Anonuevo.
  • Hearing the names of departed teachers and classmates being called out. Memories kept coming back. How I missed particular classmates.
  • Remembrance Hour.
  • Slide show showing the departed teachers and classmates.
  • “Saan ka man naroroon” as background music at the Remembrance Hour.
  • When I saw the video on Pic, I spontaneously started crying.
  • When we talked about some of those who have left ahead of us.
  • If Percy had gone to Subic, I would have gladly given up my crown to him for the most glaring head.


WHATEVER YOU WANT TO SAY
  • Everything was well-planned and everyone cooperated. Congratulations to the reunion committees for a job well done. I am glad I came.
  • “Humongous” thanks to the reunion committees – excellent job. I personally, deeply appreciate it.
  • Thank you very much for the reunion committees, both in the Philippines and North America, who put in so much time to make our 50th reunion so happy and very memorable. Thanks to Voltaire and Rhodie for hosting a party for us, provided music, photo coverage and security services too.
  • Thank you to the reunion committees. The love, loyalty, hard work and dedication are much appreciated and “truly golden”.
  • A glittering event.. that’s what gold is all about. Everyone showed off  his/her  golden spirit and golden hearts. The interaction among the attendees was marvelous. The planned activities were conducive to mingling. They were meant to be not only for the classmates but for the “mates” as well. Hoping for more frequent reunions.. soon.
  • Time flies!! Catch it while you can. Lipad, classmates, lipad!
  • Best reunion so far. I hope we can still see each other again soon, healthy and well.
  • I was so happy to see classmates I had not seen since graduation.
  • Thank you very much to all who helped plan and implement this memorable reunion. Thanks for leaving no stone unturned to make this reunion the success that it is. Maraming, maraming salamat.
  • Maraming salamat sa mga organizers at mga classmates na tumulong na maging masaya at maayos ang reunion. I had a marvelous time. Kudos to you all.
  • Very, very enjoyable. Well-organized. Everyone was friendly and ready for friendship renewal.
  • Thank you, God bless you, and may we meet again.
  • After playing the Kilala-mo-ba-sila game, we should have asked the described classmate/s to rise and be acknowledged, as in “PMT Officer”, “Lakambini candidate”, etc.
  • The whole group was wonderful. Everybody went with the flow!
  • Sana we will stay healthy (with God’s blessings) so that we can still enjoy each other’s company.
  • On a scale of 1 to 10, the reunion was a 10+. The reunion committees did a super super  job. They left no stones unturned. I love everything!
  • Let’s meet more often.
  • I want a reunion not more than 2 years from now, say 2013.